In “The Old Order” by Katherine Anne Porter, the past is a huge theme that is prevalent, especially in reference to the Grandmother and Nannie. Their entire lives and worlds revolve around talking about the past. Porter writes, “They talked about the past, really-always about the past. Even the future seemed more like something gone and done with when they spoke of it.” Their pasts, although described as bitter in this short story, were something of importance to them because the past is what was familiar to them. It was a time that defined them and shaped them into who they are now. It was what they were used to and comfortable with.
I feel that it was because of the fact that they were so comfortable with the past that they were so judgmental of the younger generations. Their children and grandchildren were looked down upon by them because they were not following the same standards that they were used to. For example, when Grandmother’s son married a “new” woman, it was unacceptable and unbearable to the grandmother even though the woman was very much like herself. I feel that the Grandmother was so disapproving of this because she was used to the ways of the past where woman were submissive and did not speak out. They did not have the right to vote, nor did they earn their own living. This was not acceptable. I feel that even though she herself was such a strong woman, it was only because she had to be in order to provide for her family after her husband died. It was not a fate that she chose for herself, it was simply one that was set before her and she had to accept for her children.
I believe that this theme of past versus present also goes along with Grandmother and Nannies’ views on slavery. They both know their place within society, as they were taught when they were younger and as a result they fulfill their roles even after slavery has ended. Not that they feel that the freedom of slaves is wrong, it is just that they are not accustomed to it. Even when they argued, it was said that they “fought on almost equal terms.” It was still for them, even when they were the closest of friends, that they were ALMOST equal, not ENTIRELY equal. This is simply because it was ingrained in them since they were born. It is along the same lines of being told that you are ugly all your life until one day you are told that you are good looking. Would you believe it? Of course not, because you have become so brainwashed since you were young that it just controls the way that you act and do things and probably even has affected who you are as a person. The way in which you are raised, along with the time in which you grow up defines you as a person and an individual and it can affect you in ways that are impossible to understand. This is why Grandmother and Nannie were so set in their ways, intolerant to new things, reminiscent about the past and stubborn as all hell not to change.
I leave you with a few questions to think about on this manner: Are your very own grandparents as tolerant to other races as you are? What causes them to be intolerant? Are they just ignorant or do they not know any better? Was this intolerance caused by what their very own parents taught them or by the types of attitudes that surrounded them during this time in history?